Sunday, September 24, 2006

intimacy

I see them at it day in and day out. They haven't known each other for long, but some people...just click...just like that.
His time management skills are non-existant. Also, his notes, his journals, his stationary always loose him. But he manages to keep his life in order, just because of her. She manages everything for him, from his dissection box, to his 'to do' list, to helping him make important decisions. And she enjoys doing all this!
He is always there for her. They talk about everything; he knows when her chums are due, takes extra efforts to keep her smiling, carries her heavy bag for her and cracks mad jokes to make her laugh.
They fight about the silliest of things, on the silliest of issues- anything from not calling on a particular time of day to loosing a favourite eraser.
Both are riding together on an emotional roller coaster. Will a final 'down' ever come? If it does, will they be able to handle it?
She voices her anxieties to me; about their future, the paths they might take together or on their own. They haven't confessed their feelings to each other yet, its not 'official' but...looking at them, its so obvious. But as usual, they are plagued by doubts. (Isn't everybody?)
And all i can say to her is "At the age of 19, you already have what most people dream of for their entire lives and sometimes never get it. Cherish these moments now, even if things don't go well, you can always say, "been there, done that!"

-yashada

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

hey YASH,
well what to say. reading something like dis for d first time..........
must say its a good one. keep writing.....
i m agree wid u for whatever u advised to dat girl but d question is what will happen if only dat girl is involved in him n der is no response fm other side coz dis what happens most of d time ....
anyways it was just a question....
u r too good at writing all dis.
good keep it up.....
well i knw i cant write like u using all those BHARI words....but still understand what i m tryin to say......
good 1.......
KEEP BLOGGING..........

Anonymous said...

hey yash ..
never expectd such stuff frm u .. i cudnt agree more with the blog .. the most reasonable thinking during such times would be to stop unncessarily worryin abt d future else d beautiful memories that present has to offer would also be lost !! sometimes,u shud simply put ur logical n analytical thnking aside n simply go with the flow ..bt only sometimes mind u !!

Anonymous said...

Hey yashada,that was a good one... i agree with most of you to not worry abt the future and cherish and enjoy the momments ...... but there is a catch in it...thinkinh abt it practically....if there is too much involvement from one side .. i guess its gonna be doifficult later to just live with cherished moments.... unless ofcourse the one involved is emotionally strong enough.. again its not right to be dependant on anybody for your daily chores.....bcos then it gets into a habit and habits are difficult to change.... well thats what i think.... i dunno how many of u agree with thuis

viraj said...

its kinda interesting that u have posted something like this already..I dont think I need to say nething more..:)..take care